Move on

Never please anyone at the cost of your happiness...
We always want things which we cannot get easily...the human nature is such....we are awe for mystery....
If a person doesnt value you then best thing in life is to move on....
A person can be a part of life but not the whole life...you are disrespecting yourself by respecting that person...
Everyone has the right to choose whats best for them, if you dont fit into their defination of being best then leave that person rather than changing yourself. You never know whose defination of perfection you would fit in.
There are so many people in this world, Just move on.

Its all in the mind. Those you wan to be with in will be with you at every cost and those who dont will never.
The sand will slip from your hands if you close your hands tightly.
Give them wings to fly and reasons to come back.

Everyone loves their space, we humans want independence. The more we get it, the more we will feel free and happy.
Imagine yourself in that person's shoes. What would you do? How would you react?

The best way to understand someone is to be wear those shoes.

Why are you spoiling your life at the cost of others. They dont deserve you, thats it...move on.

I have seen people getting into depression because someone ditched them. Yah it happens when you get emotionally and mentally dependent on that person. Not everyone has great choices, if they didnt choose you that doesnt mean that you are not perfect. Its not always your fault.

Stop victimizing yourself.
You are the only of your kind in this world. So you will be special for someone if not for that person.
Get the hell out of that zone.
Move on....

Break-ups

When I am depressed I write. I write as much as I can till I get tired, till the words stop to flow out of my mind. I find solace in it.
What do you do when you are not elated?
There are hell lot of things in this world to do rather than crying or making sad faces. It doesn't need money to divert your mind. Sometimes a lonely walk to a nearby garden or smiling at some random person who smiles back can cheer you.
Our mind is a very complex machine. We are governed by materialistic world. Someone's rudeness or behavior can break us into pieces, it can play havoc with our mind but there must be a solution to it.
That person did his or her job to break us but to gather ourselves and move forward is our work now.
Not to become idiot over and over again by the same person,
There is no need for waiting someone who didnt think twice about the negative impact that person is making on you. Your words wont get that person back. If that person couldnt see your care and love then how come they can be moved with your words.
Trust me I tried this, I wanted to save a dying relationship. I apologized over and over again but a door was shut on my face. I knew it was not wholly my fault yet I wanted to be with that person so I carried on apologizing again and again but that person was not moved. Only thing my apologizing did was it made me fell down in my own eyes.
I was almost begging for a non-existent relationship.
The fact is it was over. That's it.
Everything in this world comes with an expiry date. So the time of that relationship had come.
I know its very hard to ignore someone whom you loved like anything in this world but this is the only way out to look at other things in the world which deserve your attention.
Your apologizing for no reason wont effect anything good in this world.
Whats over is over. Move on.

You need not hurt them back because they only did what their little brain and heart could do. If they cant see your pain then its their fault. Trust me you are very lucky that they moved out of your life.
There is no need to hurt that person. Take their decision with smile on your face and wish them good luck in their lives and move away from them.

Your happiness cant be tied to someone's presence in your life. They were the lessons in your life.
Spend your time on learning some new skill be it a new language through youtube videos or new cooking skills or anything you like.
Just become a better person than what you were when you were not with them.

Random thoughts

Who am I?

May be an unwanted like many of you. Thrown out of everyone's life, disgraced, finding peace in the virtual world. Some where I am you and you are me....an Unwanted.

Nobody apart from my Parents care if I live or die. May be my death will be better for them. Slowly and slowly its taking me in its grasp.

Thrown out of job, thrown out of someone special's life, thrown into the deep waters where I have to learn quickly. I cant see the shore, i cant see a ray of hope.

But do i want to live?

I prefer dying but yes I dont want to end my life. I know my life has no meaning but even death won't have any end if I die without proving myself; if I die without proving that my life had any value.

Age is catching up on me but I wake up very early to take care of it through a strict physical torture to my body. 

People have been mean to me, they left me dying. But I dont hate anyone. I want to prove them wrong one day. I dont want them to loose but I want to win along with them.

I know I might be sounding depressed. Yes thats what I am right now but I am not defeated as yet. I have no grudges against anyone because they might have their issues in life too. Noone is bad, everyone suffers in life.

Through this blog I will go through each and every aspect of the unwanted life that we have.

It may turn our journey from being unwanted to wanted in the world.