When I am depressed I write. I write as much as I can till I get tired, till the words stop to flow out of my mind. I find solace in it.
What do you do when you are not elated?
There are hell lot of things in this world to do rather than crying or making sad faces. It doesn't need money to divert your mind. Sometimes a lonely walk to a nearby garden or smiling at some random person who smiles back can cheer you.
Our mind is a very complex machine. We are governed by materialistic world. Someone's rudeness or behavior can break us into pieces, it can play havoc with our mind but there must be a solution to it.
That person did his or her job to break us but to gather ourselves and move forward is our work now.
Not to become idiot over and over again by the same person,
There is no need for waiting someone who didnt think twice about the negative impact that person is making on you. Your words wont get that person back. If that person couldnt see your care and love then how come they can be moved with your words.
Trust me I tried this, I wanted to save a dying relationship. I apologized over and over again but a door was shut on my face. I knew it was not wholly my fault yet I wanted to be with that person so I carried on apologizing again and again but that person was not moved. Only thing my apologizing did was it made me fell down in my own eyes.
I was almost begging for a non-existent relationship.
The fact is it was over. That's it.
Everything in this world comes with an expiry date. So the time of that relationship had come.
I know its very hard to ignore someone whom you loved like anything in this world but this is the only way out to look at other things in the world which deserve your attention.
Your apologizing for no reason wont effect anything good in this world.
Whats over is over. Move on.
You need not hurt them back because they only did what their little brain and heart could do. If they cant see your pain then its their fault. Trust me you are very lucky that they moved out of your life.
There is no need to hurt that person. Take their decision with smile on your face and wish them good luck in their lives and move away from them.
Your happiness cant be tied to someone's presence in your life. They were the lessons in your life.
Spend your time on learning some new skill be it a new language through youtube videos or new cooking skills or anything you like.
Just become a better person than what you were when you were not with them.
What do you do when you are not elated?
There are hell lot of things in this world to do rather than crying or making sad faces. It doesn't need money to divert your mind. Sometimes a lonely walk to a nearby garden or smiling at some random person who smiles back can cheer you.
Our mind is a very complex machine. We are governed by materialistic world. Someone's rudeness or behavior can break us into pieces, it can play havoc with our mind but there must be a solution to it.
That person did his or her job to break us but to gather ourselves and move forward is our work now.
Not to become idiot over and over again by the same person,
There is no need for waiting someone who didnt think twice about the negative impact that person is making on you. Your words wont get that person back. If that person couldnt see your care and love then how come they can be moved with your words.
Trust me I tried this, I wanted to save a dying relationship. I apologized over and over again but a door was shut on my face. I knew it was not wholly my fault yet I wanted to be with that person so I carried on apologizing again and again but that person was not moved. Only thing my apologizing did was it made me fell down in my own eyes.
I was almost begging for a non-existent relationship.
The fact is it was over. That's it.
Everything in this world comes with an expiry date. So the time of that relationship had come.
I know its very hard to ignore someone whom you loved like anything in this world but this is the only way out to look at other things in the world which deserve your attention.
Your apologizing for no reason wont effect anything good in this world.
Whats over is over. Move on.
You need not hurt them back because they only did what their little brain and heart could do. If they cant see your pain then its their fault. Trust me you are very lucky that they moved out of your life.
There is no need to hurt that person. Take their decision with smile on your face and wish them good luck in their lives and move away from them.
Your happiness cant be tied to someone's presence in your life. They were the lessons in your life.
Spend your time on learning some new skill be it a new language through youtube videos or new cooking skills or anything you like.
Just become a better person than what you were when you were not with them.
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